How to Get Your Ex Back - Tips To Get Your Ex Back
If you’re going through a break then you might have been making the mistake of calling your ex to try and patch things up.
If you have been successful in having your ex return your calls, there's a good chance things didn’t work out the way you wanted them to.
You're still confused.
You're still heart broken.
Nothing got resolved.
But one thing is for sure: You still want to get back with your ex.
Ex Doesn't Return Your Calls
Chances are, though, that your ex has NOT returned your calls.And that can become frustrating.
Because you're probably thinking, “If only my ex would talk to me, I’d be able to straighten things out.”
Unfortunately, that's unlikely to happen.
But there's no need to lose hope.
What's The “Secret” To Getting Your Ex To Return Your Call?
You've probably been asking yourself, "How do I get my ex to RETURN my text message, email, phone call, or IM?”
Are there "magical" words that work?
As crazy as it sounds...there ARE words that almost compel your ex to return your call.
But, first…I have to WARN you about something!
If you use this technique by itself, without having any overall plan in place…you could hurt your chances of repairing your relationship.
In fact, it could do more harm than good.
Get Your Ex To Return Your Call - What To Avoid
Some messages almost NEVER work and they can make you look bad to your ex.
These types of messages usually fall into two general categories…
First category: The EMERGENCY
The “emergency” call goes something like this…
“Karen, I’m calling because I have an emergency. Please call me the moment you get this.”
Now, when you think about it, that sounds like you’re making up an excuse just to have your ex call you back - which is probably true because there's no real emergency.
And your ex will likely think it’s a trick to get her to call you.
If you haven't tried the "emergency" call then there’s the second type of call that you might have tried that almost never works either.
Second category: PLEADING
When you make a “plead” call, you’re hoping to convince your ex to call you out of sympathy for you.
The plead sounds something like this…
“Richard, please, please call me. I’ve left five messages now. It's really important that I talk to you.”
Your message makes you sound needy and desperate…to the point of begging.
Now, when Richard hears a message like that he’s probably thinking, “She just wants to make my life miserable by dredging up stuff. And I don’t need that in my life.”
You know what happens? He doesn’t return your call.
And the more messages you leave, the worse you look. And the more you distance your ex from you.
Now, those approaches don’t make you look too good to your ex, do they?
They make you look like you’re resorting to sneaky tactics to get your ex to call you back - which you are.
Fortunately, there's a technique that you can use that usually gets a return call from your ex.
You can find out what that technique is and the “magical” words to use in this get your ex back advice.
A word of caution, though. If you apply this technique by itself - without having a plan in place when your ex calls you back - you could do more DAMAGE than good.
You see, as strange as this may sound...what you do before, during, and after you get your ex to return your call is MORE important than getting your ex to return your call.
And that means you have to have a “Get My Ex Back” PLAN in place before you ask your ex to call you.
Click on the following link to get your own “Get My Ex Back” Plan.
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